Wedding Plan Change

So after a few good weeks/months of negotiating, we've decided to ditch the two wedding idea. It was not practical, and a bit awkward. We still will go and have wedding banquets, but the emphasis will be placed in the U.S.

One the other hand, my parents want me to spend some time home with them, so it sounds like 2009 will be a big spending year with less work/income. I am OK with that idea as I often complain about working, so if I can, why not!